Any man that is not into this sexual aspect of you is simply not a good match. I personally believe this is no different than evaluating compatibility personality wise. Sexuality is part of who are, there are no drawbacks or disadvantages, just mismatches. And they are not due to a lack or excess of something on anyone’s part. My experiences have been partner driven, but I don’t apologize for who I am. I certainly negotiate and talk things through, but that works both ways. Just my opinion :). Great insight!