“It’s not you, it’s me” Dating, breaking up and starting all over again…

“woman leaning on brown brick wall at daytime” by Gades Photography on Unsplash

Raise your hand if you have never used that phrase when breaking up with someone? Anyone? Just as I suspected. The truth is, when dealing with this type of conflict, it seems that human beings find it way easier to blame themselves than the other person. But that is typically not a true statement. It takes two to tango. We each play a part in a relationship. And the…