There are indeed millions of paths, reasons and outcomes. I am no one to judge if secrets are ok or not. I have learned that reality has greys… what I once thought to be the absolute truth really depends on situation and circumstances. So I have learned to be open minded. The challenge I see is when someone gets hurt. And sadly, in many cases, there’s at least one broken heart. This is all great food for thought, I appreciate you sharing your experiences. Certainly helps mine.